托福考试满分作文:信任和友谊

　　托福写作满分范文题目：信任和友谊

　　Some people trust their first impressions about a person's character because they believe these　judgments are generally correct. Other people do not judge a person's character quickly because　they believe first impressions are often wrong. Compare these two attitudes. Which attitude do you agree with? Support your choice with specific examples.

　　托福写作满分作文范文：Topic:121

　　In our daily life, we will always be told a wealth of such cases as a guy who has fallen into love　with a girl at the first sight, one of your friends who impresses your mother deeply on his or her　first visit to your house and then is treated exceptionally well by your hard-to-be-pleased mother,　and even the applicant who attracts to the HRM (human resources manager) immediately at the　　first sight of the interview and then is easily employed, to name just a few. All of the above-　mentioned cases tell us many people in the world trust the first impressions of a person, his or her　character, her conduct and her eloquence, etc., all of which he or she displays at each other's first　meet. But is all that he or she displays, or all that you understand through what he or she displays　or hints correct or just a blur image which needs to be proved in the later days?

　　Before we get the question to be treated, let’s think of the most probable (not absolutely) results of the cases mentioned in the first paragraph:

　　The guy who has just experienced the above-said romance has to say goodbye to his newly-　known girlfriend because later on he finds out that the girl is not as good as she looks; the friend　of yours who has just won your hard-to-be-pleased mother's trust is criticized by your mother　because of his or her great incoherency in the manners, and even the newly-employed employee　is dismissed because of he is not telling the truth in his resume. Till now, do you still think the first　impressions of a person’s character are dependable?

　　Psychologically, in our head we had a very perfect image of a person, of course, which varies　from one another owing to his of her specific experiences, education and family background, his　or her own opinion about a special view, etc. and when such a person as confirms with the image　in our head pretty congruently presents, we will, to great extent, overestimate or even exaggeratethe his or her merits, while omit the shortcomings as we can help it. Maybe this is the　psychological reason, thus we can ourselves lead to the answer to the question referred above that　the first impressions of a person are generally incorrect and also irresponsible for yourself.　In a word, to judge a person needs time and the first-sight impression is always undependable.