2018年考研英语二阅读理解真题源文汇总_第6页

　　So I urge you to “Skip the small talk and ask the really personal question and don’t be afraid”. Trust me you ll be surprised to see how much people are willing to share if you just ask.

　　So ask any personal question regarding his/her interesting name Any story behind this ?, how long he/she living in this city & do you remember first day you landed in this beautiful city etc etc. There are enormous ways of asking personal question which people won’t bite to answer trust me on that!!.

　　3.Find the Me Too’s:

　　When you meet the person for the first time make an efforts to find the things which you and that person is in common so that you can build the conversation from that point. When you start conversation from that point & then move outwards from there you ll find all of the sudden that conversation become lot more easier. That is because both of you on the same side of god knows something which common to both you.

　　That’s the powerful thing!!.

　　4. Pay a unique complement.

　　I read somewhere that people will forget what you do, they forget what you said,but they never forget how you made them feel & how you treated them. So be generous get your daam ego out sometimes & give someone a genuine complement. But be cautious that complement should be genuine & unique to the person and it mostly never be unheard off.

　　Let me give you an example, couple of years back when I was at hardrock café in pune there I met a gorgeous girl. Turn’s out she is a model. Hearing that I looked at her and said “Wow! You are beautiful” & to my surprize there was no reaction on her face & I think to myself How??. That’s when I realized she is immune to the word “beautiful”. Because she might heared 1000 of times till now.

　　So try and construct a complement that is unique and genuine complement & don’t lie please. People can sense that.

　　5. Ask for an opinion

　　We all have an opinion & we all want them to be heard & Everybody wants a validation.So go ahead and ask for an opinion.There you have open a two way street,That’s when the real communication begins & you ll be surprised to see how much you can pick up from the person just by asking there opinion on generic things.

　　Here is a mistakes that some people makes.They ask your opinion on really difficult things Eg: Someone asks your opinion about rise in a oil prices and their impact on the inflation. It feels like awkward to answer that if you don’t know the subject matter at all, isn’t it ?

　　So just ask something simple and keep it generic like “How do you like a coffee?”, “When the last time you watched a movie?” & when someone gives you their opinion be sure to “LISTEN”.

　　6.Be present

　　Imagine you are pouring your heart to someone and he/she just busy on their phone chatting & if you ask for their attention you get a response “ I can multitask”.

　　So when someone tries to communicate with you just be in that communication whole heartedly. And my favourate part “Make an eye contact”.

　　Trust me eye contact is where all the magic happens. When you make an eye contact you can feel the conversation. & Let me boost up your motivation while talking when you look in their eyes 9 out of 10 times they will not look away.

　　7. Name, Places, Animal Things.

　　You all came onto a conversation where you met the person ,after some time you met again and you forgot the name of the person. Isn’t that awkward, If they play the game with you tell me my name?.

　　So remember the little details of the people you met or you talked with may be the places they been to , the places they want to go, the things they like, the things they hate whatever there is.

　　When you remember such things you can automatically become investor in their well being. So they fell responsible to you to keep that conversation going.

　　That’s it. 7 amazing ways that you can make conversation with almost anyone. Trust me every person is a really good book to read to or to have a conversation with.